OK, I know this has absolutely nothing, what so ever, to do with what I have blogged about previously. But these interesting questions and thoughts are in my brain right now and I’ll write about them before I forget. I was thinking about these questions when I was talking to my friend in the states and we were talking about the “popular” girls in his grade. So I thought this subject would be fun and interesting to write about.

WHAT DO GUYS THINK ABOUT GIRLS?

  • Diana says: so, wut do u think about girls?
  • HE (1) says: well i think as they grow up into this world of **** they experience different ways of life such as being ******* and wanting to be the queen bee but are actually really dumb even though nobody cares cause they’re hot…while others stay quite but when they speak they speak their mind without nobody caring and when they say this they strike everybody cause nobody really knows they r there, they say it well and importantly.
  • Diana says: do u think we’re complicated?
  • HE (1) says: some r some arent…those ***** ones have a complicated brain cause they dont know whats going on while others…the smart ones r confused socialy about why they rnt popular

  • Diana says: do u think r girls complicated
  • HE (2) says: some
  • HE (2) says: most
  • HE (2) says: more than half
  • Diana says: do u think we live in our own little world?
  • HE (2) says: there are times when that fits

  • Diana says: wut do u think about girls?
  • HE (3) says: i cant categorize all girls and say sumthin
  • Diana says: are we complicated?
  • HE (3) says: yeah, very

  • Diana says: wut do u think about teenage girls?
  • HE (4) says: their ego is too big for their own good
  • Diana says: are they complicated?
  • HE (4) says: they are really simple, they just think a straight line is complicated
  • HE (4) says: its that age when u start being really self conscious
  • HE (4) says: after when the hormones calm down..u start to realize life is not only about yourself

  • Diana says: wut do u think about teenage girls?
  • HE (5) says: some are too gossip oriented, but guys are just as bad
  • Diana says: are they complicated?
  • HE (5) says: no, only for the guys that cant understand them-if u cant understand the girl than she should find another guy

WOMENWHAT DO GIRLS THINK ABOUT GUYS?WOMEN

  • Diana says: wut do u think about guys? in general
  • SHE (1) says: you know what I think, of guys in GENERAL? They’re immature. I’m sorry, but it’s true.
  • SHE (1) says: but the thing is, girls mature quicker than guys.
  • SHE (1) says: and guys, they’re perverted, and some are kinda gross. hahaha now i sound like i think they have cooties. but honest to god, how would we live without them? i dont think we could.
  • SHE (1) says: but some guys, on the other hand, arent all the same, you know?
  • Diana says: yea i get u
  • Diana says: so, there are exceptions to some boys?
  • SHE (1) says: yeah there are.. they cant all be the same. its like us girls.
  • SHE (1) says: to be honest, some of us are snobs, some of us care waaaay too much about how we look, how we act (around guys especially) and i know, there are some guys like that.. but i dont know, the way i see it is that.. some are immature, some arent. some only care about “hot chicks” and other guys think thats lame
  • Diana says: y do u think guys think we’re complicated?
  • SHE (1) says: why? oh don’t even get me started. haha i sound like such a girl. but my theory: we’re complicated because we think things through. you know guys, I guess they find the easy way out and then “okay, my work here is done…….” no matter how mean they were about it.. depending on the situation.
  • SHE (1) says: and girls, on the other hand, we think things through. plus the way we fight.. the “girl world fight”: everything is secret, behind people’s backs. the way gyus fight: “yo dude, what was that for dude, imma punch you dude’
  • SHE (1) says: and then 5 minutes later, they’re best friends again.
  • SHE (1) says: but im really leaning towards how we think things through, how we get so confused and tangled up about not hurting other people, about doing things the right way and why we dont just say it straight up like it is

  • Diana says: wut do u think about guys in general?
  • SHE (2) says: mm..idk like they can be soooo cute but they can make u suffer so bad..and they can treat u so nice and so bad..and it all depends on how u treat ur self and how u let them treat u

  • Diana says: wut do u think about guys in general?
  • SHE (3) says: I think that the average guy is very shallow, and does not see beyond a girls beauty. But, even though many girls deny it, boys do look in a girls personality. But they have to be pretty and have a great personality. They also look a lot for in the part in having things in common. They also look for someone who is fun, and pleasant to spend their time with. But one thing that happens with boy AND girls, is that they see that the relationship at some time becomes monotonous, and that makes the relationship boring. So, I think that lots of guys and girls like happy, spontaneous girls or guys, so they can maintain their relationship very varied and spontaneous.

  • Diana says: wut do u think about guys?
  • SHE (4) says: i think that theres definitely a guy for every girl, u just have to wait around for the right one cus there are a lot of a**holes.. but u cant generalize cus there are some exceptions.. there always is..and even tho at a certain time it might seem that there isnt, and that theyre all jerks, u should just let the jerks be, and wait for ur Mr. Right cus he exists.. theyre like everything else, theres good ones and bad ones.. u just have to choose wisely

  • SHE (5) says: So what do i think about guys? They’re probably complicated to us but not between each other. Us girls always want them to be perfect and understand us but that’s not true. Especially with boys in our grade. one third of them mostly don’t talk to girls that much. A separate group of boys are smarter than to be thinking about girls and they are more interested in other things(sports, education,etc.) Then another group of boys hang out with girls because they like to but they just say it’s because they like to bother girls. Then there are some other boys that are serious and good to girls…but that’s very rare and i think there’s only one boy like that. After all, they’re all still immature but i guess they’ll get better.

We all have seen chick flick movies and you can see that it is very materialistic. An example is Mean Girls, which draws an elaborate picture of some cliques in high schools. But, I haven’t experienced any of what happened in the movie. I have been in CDS for my whole life and the people in our grade are not materialistic; everyone is friends with each other. Well, I’ve always wondered if some schools are like that because what i’ve seen and read about cliques are just shocking. It is true though, some schools in the United States are like that. I remember back near the beginning of the school year, we were learning about nonfiction and we had this packet that had a lot of articles. There was this article about cliques and how girls were really mean to each other. In the popular clique, there were so many dumb rules, it was ridiculous. I don’t remember exactly what the rules were, this is just an example:

  • You can only wear a ponytail once a week
  • Mondays you have to wear skirts
  • You can’t wear jeans more than once in a week
  • If you go to a party, you can hook up with a guy, but don’t act like a ****, it makes us look bad
  • Only go to cool parties

If a girl in the clique broke a rule, she would be punished kicked out of the clique. Another mean thing that popular girls do is “three-way conversation”, which is when one girl talks to another girl over the phone, while another girl is listening on the other line. This way, girls find out what others really think about them, or they hear some things they really shouldn’t know. Anyways, yes, popular girls are complicated, but are ALL girls complicated?These are some questions I was thinking of:

  • What is your definition of a “popular” girl?
  • How does a girl become popular?
  • Why ARE they popular?
  • What do they do with their lives?
  • Are they stuck up because they are popular or are they popular because they are stuck up?
  • How does the “alpha girl” become the leader/queen bee?
  • Are they even really friends with each other?
  • Why are they even friends if they talk so much *** about each other behind their backs?
  • Why do people even like them if they’re stuck up?
  • Some popular girls aren’t mean, so is there another kind of popular?
  • Do people really think that by hanging out with the popular girls, THEY will become popular?
  • Can they change and become normal girls that are friends with everyone and are not materialistic?

I can go on and on and on writing questions about cliques and popular girls. Some of these questions might not have an answer, but its brain-wrecking just thinking about the right answer. If your wondering what I do with my friends, we don’t do the things cliques do. To me, they live in a whole different world. Although, yes, they are the same sex and are homo sapiens, they seem really different from me; just really different from the people here. Then again, not all girls are the same. There are smart girls, emo/goth girls, athletic girls, nerdy girls, sweet girls, party girls…you name it. In my opinion, people shouldn’t be materialistic. The world would be so much more relaxing and fun to be in if people weren’t like that. This is another reason why I love it here. In our grade, people aren’t like that. It is calm and there is not a lot of drama going on, although every once in a while, there will be some. It’s great because everyone’s friends with each other. Maybe not as close as they are to one, but they are not hating on people. I think the situation is like this in our grade because there are so little people, compared to the public schools in USA. People know each other and can almost name everyone in eight grade. But in the states, you might only know 50 people out of the 200 in your grade. It’s really different. Also people are friends with each other because they actually like that person and think of them as a great person…not because they need a lot of friends to look cool, or they need a group of girls following her around just to look like she’s irresistible. Well, these are just my opinion on what I have seen in movies and read in books. But I bet that not all of the schools are like that. Check out these links, they’re quite interesting :) :

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TO ANY GUY THAT IS READING THIS: you might think we are complicated, but you guys are too. There are many things that we don’t understand about you. Guys might think girls are dumb and useless. Girls might think the exact opposite of that. Either way, if you think about it, the human race wouldn’t exist if it wasn’t for both…guy and girl. I guess girls will be girls, and guys will be guys. That’s how life is.